About Us
We had our first date on a cold evening in late 2012 at a little Italian restaurant next to a movie theater. Both of us had been online dating for awhile with limited success. Luckily for us, that changed that night. Immediately we hit it off. After our first couple dates, we were seeing each other as often as we could. We were in our mid twenties and it didn’t take long before our sex life started to take off.
Neither of us had much experience before meeting, but we had a unique chemistry together that made trust easy. We learned about our sex life over time through continual communication, something that has been a hallmark of our relationship. We quickly earned a reputation among our friends and family for our unexplained absences and big sneaky smiles. After just under a year together we were engaged. On our wedding day we spent the morning edging each other in bed. We nearly went too far, but wanted to wait until that night for the special occasion, and indeed it was. However it wasn’t until our Honeymoon that our sex lives would start on the trajectory that would lead us to where we are now.
After a small but beautiful wedding at a little winery, we found ourselves a thousand miles from home on a tropical island at a beach side luxury resort. Something neither of us had ever experienced before as we both had come from fairly humble upbringings. It was surreal for us and we wasted no time once we arrived, as I had Sweet Pea bent over the bed immediately upon entering our room. Every day we explored a bit more until one day we decided we would walk well past the busy resort beaches, where we found seclusion in paradise. Alone, we shed what was left of our inhibitions and came to the obvious conclusion that swimwear made very little sense. Wild and free we played under the sun and made love.
While we were no strangers to nudity at home, there was something unexpectedly profound about experiencing the same thing in nature together. When we returned home we began to question societal norms we grew up with. “Why was nudity taboo?” “What was the big deal about sex and why will no one talk about it?” We’d scratched the surface. We were faced with the juxtaposition of our happy, vibrant sex lives and society’s notion that marriage ultimately leads to a slow decline into mediocrity. This seemed lazy, wrong even. We decided that for us, “the honeymoon is never over.”
Since then we’ve never stopped exploring together. We have a family now and face new challenges each day. We’re figuring it out as we go, like everyone else. But we want to help others too, through sex positivity. Normalizing sexual self expression by acknowledging that it is an essential part of being human. We want to show what real sex, in a real relationship, really looks like. It’s hot, funny, unscripted, and meaningful. We live in such a sex negative culture where many are not allowed to sexually self express, and most feel that sex is a topic they’d not dare to talk about freely. Porn however is ubiquitous, and for many, it is their only sexual education. This makes it difficult to understand real sex and complexities of a loving sexual relationship when most of the porn we see is disconnected from reality. We want to change that.
Where will we go from here? Come follow us and our sex adventures to find out!